Why Would Your Wife Cheat on You? Here are the 6 Top Reasons

April 28th, 2010

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  1. Comment by u2viperxerox
    April 28th, 2010

    Men if your wife cheats will you accept her back?
    I’ve read that the reason why women cheat is that they’re looking for their "self happiness" if that means by leaving the good life they’ve had a good husband,a nice house,a nice car,a good finacial status, and childrens. In stage 1 of a woman in marriage will suffer from a pre- middlelife crisis that they felt like they missed something in their childhood and would like to make-it up, also women at this stage will nolonger have sexual desire of their husbans as the infidelity plays a role in this stage now. Stage 2 & 3 women are now prone to start cheating on their husband since they have avoided sexual interest with them and at this stage men still think of their wives as " a good girl" not know that their wives are cheating behind their backs. When cheating happens women will divorce their husband leaving their life they’ve onces had and some women often feel remorse what they did is wrong and will either fix that for being truthfull.But,my real question here is if a woman misses their old life and willign to go back to their ex-husband they know they’ve moved on married another woman,has children with, and has been more happier after the divorse at this stage men will also fix their mistake that what their previous wife did not like will about them. Men if your ex-wife cheats on you will you accept her back into your relationship? or forgive her but not go back into relationship with her?

    Note this question is for men only,but women can still answer I do need some answers from the different sides of the story.When my mother cheats on my dad I felt that my mom is evil my dad is a hardworking man he doesn’t make that much money,but enough to make a living for us he even spends a lot of money for me to attend college I am still helping dad by giving him money when I left home.
    I’m starting to realize that there’s alot of faggotry going on answers.yahoo.com when I ask a question bunch of idiots post off-topic question. Gosh! post an answer that is on-topic of my answer do not make it go off-topic or I’ll delete your answers and block you.

  2. Comment by angel
    April 28th, 2010

    if c man can cheat a wife then y cant a women cheat?
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  3. Comment by ???Abrazos y besitos???
    April 28th, 2010

    No cheating is not acceptable!!!
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  4. Comment by Dick Jr.
    April 28th, 2010

    NO WAY! Cheating is the ultimate betrayel.
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  5. Comment by Liuliu LIU
    April 28th, 2010

    If you still love her. FORGIVE AND FORGET WHAT’ SHE’S DONE. Of course, take her back. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You should know the answer not us.
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  6. Comment by Katherine
    April 28th, 2010

    You’re obviously very young, nothing is black and white and you will realise this when you get older. Cheating happens because a persons needs are not being met in the marriage, and the cheating itself is often not the problem, just a symptom of deeper issues
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  7. Comment by ~FROG~
    April 28th, 2010

    I wish…….. the MEN’S Private Parts would NOT WORK 100%…. during Cheating……..

    I wish……… the WOMAN’S Private Parts WOULD CLOSE - LOCK- TIGHT…….. during Cheating…

    PROBLEM SOLVED……….
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  8. Comment by cobrasnake
    April 28th, 2010

    It is a very important question.My answer is : 100% No .But I know, some men that love their ex- wives too much;so they will accept their women; does not matter if they are cheating on them.
    Good question.
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  9. Comment by hello
    April 28th, 2010

    No matter how much I loved her, I would have to say goodbye. I agree with one of your answers, it is the ultimate betrayal. Once the vow is broken, it could never feel the same. Yes, I would have to say goodbye.
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  10. Comment by Wacawaca
    April 28th, 2010

    Try to think of cheating as risky (sexual) behaviour. There are some women, who, at certain points in their mensrtual cycle will behave in a sexually risky way. ti is when they cheat or are most likely to cheat. It’s still a moral question, but for some, the urges can be very strong. During this stage of their cycle they are sexually attracted to the ‘bad boy’ type, and thus, the sexually risky behaviour that we call cheating.

    In order to better understand this, it’s important to know that the brain is the primary sex organ. It’s where hormones are created, which in turn shoot through their body like lightning bolts. These impulses (at least for some) are very very powerful. During the remaining parts of their cycle, they want and need a stable partner and lifestyle.

    All I’m suggesting is that with proper medical intervention, these hormones (in the brain) can be brought under control.

    For further research int this topic, do a google search using these key words;

    falling in love on a rope bridge
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    Life is a work in progress, try not to be too harsh on her.

  11. Comment by Jery E
    April 28th, 2010

    you heard wrong. women wanna get banged hard just as much as men do, enough with this psycho babble crap. and when they don’t get it at home they go out looking for strange just like dudes.
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  12. Comment by john k
    April 28th, 2010

    sure i did ONCE,
    she wont cheat anymore,told her if it happened again i wont forgive
    fool me once ……
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  13. Comment by Tuddy
    April 28th, 2010

    I took the liberty, re-writing your post for personal reasons. Nevertheless, my observations follow my interruption of your post.

    You say the following: "Have read that the reason why women cheat and/or leave a good life consisting of a good husband nice home, car, children, and superior financial status is that they are looking for their “Individual happiness”. A woman in stage one of marriage will suffer from a pre-middle life crisis missing impressions in their childhood and would like to be conscious of them. Women at this stage will no longer have sexual desire for their husband as infidelity plays a role in her lack-luster desire. Stage 2 & 3 women are cheating on their husband since they are suppressing sexual interest for their husbands. This stage men still think of their wives as " a good girl" unaware that their wives are cheating behind their backs. When cheating is occurring women will divorce their husband leaving this life, and some women feel remorse and stay to try and repair the relationship. Nevertheless, my real question here is if a woman misses their life, and is willing to go back to her ex-husband, who has another woman, and more children and seems particularly happier [presuming men will recuperate from the mistakes in their previous marriage]. My question is this: “Men if your ex-wife cheats on you, will you reconsider, and possibly return to work things out”. Alternatively, will you demonstrate how much you have grown and re-established your self-esteem and stay with the women your committed to now suggesting that your ex-wife cease and discontinue her efforts to ruin your life".

    Your final comments associating your father as an outstanding man are exemplary, and I as a father with two daughters am overwhelm and encouraged by your remarks. Use the marriage between your mother and father as a teaching tool and a lesson in relationships, and commitments. Your progressing considering the place you may be coming from in this matter. More than ever, you must maintain superiority over your emotions enabling you to use and make sound decision in the future. Be encouraged. Because you get to never, live this dramatization again. You can go back. However, what was capitulated consumes what they had. You obviously see that here, and I encourage you to continue to support what is right, and detest suffering.
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  14. Comment by Christie Brucks
    April 28th, 2010

    OK. I’m a woman. After cheating occurs, it is so hard to relax and forgive. It takes a lot of work. Essentially, what that person is saying to you is: I’m willing to risk your love and relationship to selfishly pursue what I want right this moment. It is truly the most disrespectful thing that you can do to your mate. Truly.

    I think it would require a lot of work, but typically, the type of woman/man who would cheat are incapable of really hard things. They are incapable of going through the tough stuff because they cheated on a better situation. Seriously. Think about it, if they couldn’t take it before, what makes you think they could take it now?

    It is really rare that you bump into someone who is not a cheater but made a mistake.
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  15. Comment by MarcusWillie
    April 28th, 2010

    No!! If she cheats once, she’ll do it again. Game over for her!!
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